Could you imagine, having been invited to a swank soirée by a locally prominent citizen, telling the host what Jesus told the host of a party he was invited to? I reckon it would be a conversation-stopper and a sure-fire way of getting your name off the "A-List".
First of all Jesus draws attention to the way people were jostling their way to the positions of importance at the party. They were headed for possible humiliation according to Jesus - better to draw back and have the host invite you up to the place of honour.
The he says to the host that rather than inviting his friends and family and wealthy neighbours to a party, presumably with the understanding that they will reciprocate with an invitation of their own, he should invite all those who were outcasts, the ritually unclean and those who most certainly could not reciprocate the invitation.
Bruce Prewer, in his reflection on this story, coined the phrase "un-costed giving" as a way to describe what he thought Jesus was driving at. He reflected on the difficulty even we in the church have in living up to this calling, so pervasive is the cultural norm of quid pro quo in our society.
It made me think of some of the people mentioned by Philip Yancey in his book Soul Survivor, people he had met and interviewed in his journalistic career or whose lives, through the books they had written, had been an inspiration to him. He told the stories of people like Martin Luther King Jr, Dr Paul Brand who did some magical surgery for people with leprosy, Robert Coles, a social scientist who discovered that the children of the poorest of poor int he world had a lot to teach us in the west about life and the important things, and Mahatma Ghandi. All these people gave of their own lives unstintingly for the welfare of others, often ahead of their own welfare. Theirs are remarkable examples of un-costed giving.
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